Blog post by Jeph
Sandrine said 10:00 so promptly at 10:00 on Saturday Edie and I were out in the gravel courtyard ready to go. Sandrine came out to join us while her husband went to get his big black two door Mercedes. We got in and drove about 5 minutes and pulled into a lot. To our left at the corner of the lot we could see lots of people gathered with lots of flags. We realized that this was going to be some kind of ceremony. We walked to the corner and saw that people were gathered in parallel lines facing each other. One line was mostly men about my age in uniforms and white gloves holding large French flags. These men were members of La Souvenir Francaise, which I think is an organization a bit like our American Legion. One person in that line looked like an active duty military guy. The other line was made up of civilians, some wearing red white and blue sashes. At one end of the lines they faced the war memorial which looked to me like it had been placed there to commemorate the dead from WWI and then modified to honor those in the Resistance in WWII. In front of the memorial in between the two lines was a low square of marble with a hockey puck sized hole in the center and inscriptions around the sides. This was for a commemorative flame.
The ceremony began and it was hard for me to follow what I was supposed to do since I wasn't understanding the French. Edie did a lot better. There were speeches, the playing of the French and US anthems over loudspeakers, and greeting of the dignitaries present including a representative of the mayor who could not be there due to illness. One very dignified gentleman lit the flame with a bit of cotton attached to the tip of a very serious looking saber.
Next the assembly moved en masse in cars to the memorial to Maurice Bouchery (https://goo.gl/maps/F2mAYG3WfG722Rty7) There we placed a wreath and some more remarks were made. After that it was back in the cars to the house at the corner of rue de Tanneurs and Maurice Bouchery street (https://goo.gl/maps/PrgDS76wAkWUVGPt6). Not everyone came to this address but enough people to stop traffic at that little corner for a while. Then we went to the cemetery and laid flowers at the grave of M. Bouchery. Finally, there was a very gracious reception at the Hotel de Ville where refreshments were served and Edie and I were presented with a medal in honor of our father by La Souvenir Francaise. One of their members also gave me a hat and a pin for my blazer. M. Bruno Lesage-Degryck made a very nice speech in English about the heroism of M. Bouchery. He said that he is remembered every year at Bastille Day, which is the day in 1944 when he was shot by the Germans. I also spoke briefly with the help of Timothee Wattelier who was designated to translate. I thanked everyone for their kindness. I also asked them to remember also the bravery of Madame Titren who cared for the aviators during their time there at great risk to herself and her daughter. That wrapped up the surprise. Sandrine and her husband drove us back to their place. It was a very overwhelming experience and certainly a big surprise.
Edie and I caught our breath and then drove the 50 minutes to Poperinge in Belgium. We parked near the Church and walked into the square heading for the tourist office where we were to meet Christine (daughter of Jules Morel who had helped our father when he bailed out of his plane) and her son Michael and his wife Lena. As we were walking past they spotted us and called to us. Edie wondered later how they had known that we were the ones they were waiting for. I pointed out that I was wearing the universal sign of an American which is a blue blazer and khaki pants. We introduced ourselves and were just beginning to visit when Patrick Morel walked up coming from the train station.
We sat down at an outdoor cafe on a lovely breezy day and had a very nice visit. After a while we took a walk past the site of their parents' clothing shop, now demolished and replaced by apartments. Then we visited Talbot House which is now a museum pretty much right across the street. https://goo.gl/maps/uwc3egXQ5HvmpXpq8 During WWI it was a place where English soldiers could get away from the front line (which was not far away) and have a little taste of home. Very sad because many of the men who took solace there were ultimately killed on the front. It was a very interesting museum. At the end of our visit a caretaker served us tea in the garden which was very nice. He told us that he had spent 18 years in the US coaching soccer, part of that time at ISU in Normal and part in St. Louis. He made a point of saying he was a Cardinals fan. Nice man anyway. I gave him a copy of Dad's book.
After the museum we walked back to the square and visited a bit more until all had to get going back to their homes. It was so wonderful to spend time with the Morels. We will make sure that we stay in touch.


